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Bad
Reasons to Have Sex
by Gloria Liven
There are good reasons to have sex-- and then, there are stupid reasons
to have sex. Avoid having sex for these reasons!
For Your Ego
This is one of the stupidest reasons to have sex. Sure, it may make you
feel sexy or desirable-- after all, that hot chick/guy wouldn't have slept
with you if you weren't, right? Wrong. There are plenty of desperate people
out there, or people who just want sexual gratification. It really says
nothing good about you.
Because Everyone's
Doing It
It's true that most people (around 90% according to some polls) have premarital
sex. But that doesn't mean you have to do something stupid. And many of
those people that have premarital sex only have sex with one person (their
future spouse). So don't sleep around thinking that "everyone is
doing it". I know many people that have good relationships, and aren't
having sex-- and I know many bad relationships that are centered around
sex.
You're Pressured
Into It
You think he/she expects it by now? You think they'll leave you for someone
else if you don't put out? Well, good riddance to them if they do! You
should never have sex because the other person expects it! And if he/she
does expect it, maybe you should start shopping for a new partner that
will value you more than sex.
Pity
You should never sleep
with someone out of pity. Feeling sorry for someone is a terrible reason
to have sex with them!
Wanting Intimacy
Having sex will not build true intimacy in a relationship. In fact, using
sex instead of emotional bonding will hurt a relationship. If you can't
create intimacy without sex, then you aren't ready for sex.
Revenge
Never a good idea. Sleeping with someone to get back at someone else is
just stupid. It won't bring you love or respect, and it may even hurt
your reputation with your friends. Someone who would sleep with you knowing
you're in a relationship, or just out of one, isn't someone you want to
start a sexual relationship with in the first place.
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