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The
Chemicals of Love
by Gloria Liven
Oxytocin, Estrogen, Testosterone, Dopamine, even Adrenaline... what each
of these chemicals does to us when we fall in love.
Estrogen:
The female hormone
Estrogens are the steriods that are the female sex hormones. They are
present in both females and males, but are much higher in women of reproductive
age.
They are important
in the formation of secondary sex characteristics (breasts, body shape)
and in regulating the estrous cycle.
Low levels of estrogen have been linked with depression and mood problems.
Estrogen levels vary with the estrous cycle, and many studies have confirmed
that a women prefer more masculine men when ovulating. They also have
a higher sex drive during this time-- and their male partners exhibit
higher levels of sexual desire, attention, and jealousy than at any other
time in the cycle. It makes sense; You're most concerned about sex when
it's most likely to result in reproduction.
Testosterone:
Sex Drive!
This is the "male" sex hormone that regulates sex drive in both
males and females.
It is created in the testes and ovaries, and in small amounts in the adrenal
glands. Men have about 40-60x the amount than women, although women may
be more sensitive to the hormone.
In men, it is responsible for male sex characteristics-- including chest
hair, increased muscle mass, deepened voice, Adam's apple, and broad shoulders
and chest.
Testosterone is what gives us our libido and sex drive. Low testosterone
levels can mean decreased libido for both sexes.
Dopamine
& Seratonin: Pleasure
The intense feelings when we first fall in love are similar
to being on cocaine. That's thanks to dopamine, the neurotransmitter that
acts as the the "reward" chemical in our brain. When we see
our loved one-- even a photo of them-- the dopamine areas of the brain
light up. Dopamine is there to motivate us to do what's good-- in many
cases, that's falling in love.
Levels of seratonin
in the brain are low during new romances-- which is similar to people
with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. In fact, being in love in the early
stages resembles OCD-- constant thinking about your lover, wanting to
spend every moment with them, looking forward to your next meeting...
Oxytocin:
Bonding
Oxytocin is a warm, fuzzy chemical important to relationships.
It's what makes us form long-term bonds with our sex partner or our children.
Oxytocin is released during orgasm and also during childbirth. It helps
our brain form a bonding relationship. The prairie vole is one of the
few animals that exhibits completely monogamous behavior-- and like us,
it shares oxytocin receptors in the brain. Oxytocin release is seen in
the later emotional attachment phase of relationships.
Adrenaline:
Excitement
Adrenaline is released to help us flee from danger. It speeds our heartbeat
up and makes us more alert. It can also trick us into thinking we are
in love.That's probably because excitement, arousal, attraction, and anxiety
are all related.
A study done in the 1970s by Arthur Aron and Don Dutton showed that risky
situations make us more susceptible to feelings of romance and love.
Men met a woman on a rickety, high bridge, and on a lower, safer bridge.
Those that met the woman on the high bridge were more likely to find the
woman sexier and the situation more romantic than those on the safer bridge.
Watching a thriller can bring more feelings of love than a tame movie...
adrenaline can trick us into thinking those exciting feelings we are having
are related to love, not just danger.
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